This is PATHETIC

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone only knows how to comment others without reflecting him/herself?!

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone thought him/herself is the best and never knows what others keep saying behind his/her back?!

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone keep on denied his/her mistake?!

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone turn his/her face from you when the two of you meeting each other face-to-face and not when in FB chat?!

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone NEVER PAY ATTENTION to people comment on him/her and yet keep on complaining about them for being honest?!

Can you imagine how pathetic when someone blame you for what you did to her and never ever came across how he/she had hurts the others?!

Seriously, I feel SYMPATHY on such person. Frankly speaking, I wish him/her to know his/her mistake so that he/she can change. And I hope he/she can be open to comment.

I'm ever be a person that barely accept comments, having bad tempers, comments someone without thinking etc..

But now, not to say 100% but I think I manage to change especially that I'M OPEN TO COMMENT

Hell, someone need comments to improve, if you cant receive it, means you will living in the past and you will never improve yourself, dude...!!

Hectic Month

Such a hectic month for me...Hmm...for most of the students to be exact.
Tonnes of assignments need to be done.
To be worst, last preparation for Final Year Project's preparation.
Gosh... Im a dead fish~
But it is kinda relief for now since I only left one assignment and of course my Final Year Project's report.

Tired of editing my group members' work.
To be honest, I wonder what had they learnt throughout the 3 years in their uni's life.
Improper citations and references, messy work done, copy & paste, free rider, little contribution....blah blah blah...Too much to point out though.....
Sigh...Wonder how's their life when they are in work world?

Well, I'm not saying that I'm good in doing my assignments but I have a pretty high demand on it
So, whoever that work in a group with me, they are facing a *tiger*
And perhaps they will tend to rely on me and let me do the finishing part
Well, I will not submit my work unless I feel satisfy on it.

To be worst, I will dare to ask my members to redo their work by pointing out their mistakes and guide them. And if they still not manage to reach my "expectations" (hehehe....), then I guess I'm gonna do their part as well...

I'll not scold them but sometimes unconsciously, I will raise my volume when I try to explain to them.
Usually I will do it personally or in a group...For sure, I did felt bad after....
Hmm....For sure, I will not talk to them in public or even scold them for their bad works even though how I'm not satisfy with it

As I believed, they have they own dignity. They deserve respect.

frankly speaking

I got no comments on my own look! 

I admit I do looks better than some people and they are lots of people looks greater than me as well!

I do look good sometimes and there is sometimes where I look bad too!

I got no ideas why guys will like me!

Chinese, Malays, Iban, Bidayuh etc...and even foreigner are compliments on my appearance and sometimes they do fall for me too

But, girls, does that bother you?

I don't think I'm attractive enough or sexy or hot enough to attract guys

Just that, perhaps, I have my own unique aura....**narcissism**

hhmm.....well, you tell me...

And for sure, not all guys are attracted to me as I'm not a model or Miss Universe

I think that those guys are feeling comfortable when chat with me

And it makes them fall for me easily...

Well, perhaps, my looks give a little contribution as well since APPEARANCE is the FIRST IMPRESSION that you gives to people

Well, some might said and thought that I'm actually misinterpreted on what is going on and think that the guys are actually falling for me while that is not the fact

And some might even think that those guys are not sincere with me

Well, mouth is yours, say whatever you want

But here, I have a question for you, do you have sincere (or fake) admirer from different races as I do?

To conclude, I just want peoples to know this :

I'm hoping for a gentleman which falls on me sincerely and he are capable to create a better future together with me.

H.A.T.E S.T.A.L.K.E.R

To stalker, 

Hey you, why you keep on following all my social network?

In the beginning I don't mind have you as my follower but not until you did something bad to me by telling what I post in FB to others and you adding comments on it

WTH do you think you are? 

That is my social website, depends on me what I want to post

WTH do you think you are?

That is my social website, I like it to be read by public so what

At least I know what should I post and what I shouldn't

I post with limitation dude!

Hey you! You means nothing to me. 

You don't deserve my respect!

STALKER~! How I wish I will never ever interact with you but I know it is DEADLY IMPOSSIBLE

hey you! how are you?

Don't know how long.....It's been a while since....you and I both chat happily...


Since that day, 
I don't remember how long we didn't say HI to each other...

I don't remember how long we didn't chat with each other...

Days? Perhaps...However, for me, it seems a week or probably months...

Guess what?

Every time when I sign in in my social network, 

your image doesn't show up in the chat list

news feed doesn't shows your news

there ain't any inbox from you

Couldn't describe how sad and disappointed I am....

What I can do is just search for your name and came to your profile...

But, too bad, I'm not able to view your wall and pictures any more...

Just your profile pictures...

Looking at it make me miss you more...

But I should be glad since you didn't block me...

Since the day you unfriend with me, totally.......I lost contact with you...

No more news update about you

No more HI from you

No more complaints from you about your life

No more sweet calling

No more problem sharing session

....blah blah blah....

I do not know you will pay attention on my blog or not. 
But if you are viewing it right now, I just want to say that, 
**I will always approve back friend request...Let's us have a new start...**
Waiting for your friend's request.....

It meant something to me

What is your response when someone you know in FB suddenly removed you from his/her friend list? But is with reason. Neither bad or good reasons. 
Just...............with reasons....Neutral reasons, perhaps?? Hmmm..
PS : Never know a reason can be neutral tho... :P

Well, and he/she is not a stranger or the person that randomly added into your friend list?
What will you feel when you get to know that this happen on you?
Sad? Disappointed? Angry?


If he/she disable his/her wall to the public, then, what you can view is just his/her profile pictures.
Hoping that he/she is fine and have a good life there.
And pray for the best for them.



For me, I kinda look serious into this matter. 
For me, removing a friend in FB means removing him/her in your life. 
As you will not be able to get any updates from him/her any more.


It is sad and hurts if I know someone remove me from his/her FB and it force me to think twice on either adding him/her back or not since he/she is the one that removed me first.
For me, when someone removed me, it seems that he/she is giving hints to you to get away from his/her life and vice versa.
PS : maybe I'm wrong


In this case, I will not adding him/her back but I will approve if he/she add me back.
He/she have his/her own reason for removing me.
And in return, after some thinking, I hope they would add me back.


I try to think positively. Maybe they removing me for good sake.
You might know or might not know on the reason.
Perhaps the parties involved need some times to cool down?
But, does that mean a person must be removed from friend list?


Well, every action have it's own reason and different person solved their problem differently.
Respect their decision as long as they are happy with it.



And I had learnt something, FRANKLY SPEAKING COULD LEAD TO SOMETHING BAD.


I thought frankly speaking (with some limitation) especially when it comes to how you feel, will make everything clear.
But, I think it had been proven that I'm wrong.
I think I had been too straight-forward just to make everything clear. 
It's time to make a change in that.

I HATE HIM

To be honest, every time I see HIM, I will feel that anger took control over me!! 

Just feel heat is all the way up to my head! Seriously, I FREAKING HATE HIM!!

I doesn't know why but I just cant forgive HIM. With his demands, attitude blah blah blah...

Never know own ability before demanding for something and hoping me to help him!

Such horrible guy?? WT~~!!!!!!! SHAME ON YOU DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!

I do not know whether and what does his friends are gossiping about me behind my back, but how I wish they know that the Buddies that they are referring to, doesn't done his job as a bf as well!! DON'T PUT THE BLAME ON ME IF YOU DOESN'T KNOW THE WHOLE STORIES!

And I dislike HIS friends. 

Thought with money, then can be so proud of?! 

Thought with money, then can look down on people?!

Step back guys...and to be worst, their gf? huh? seems so pretending! with all those sweet callings? Gosh~~!!! It make me feels like vomiting tho~!!!

Argghh~~!!! Why such guys ever appear in my life!!

Hey you...!!!!!!! If you are reading on my blog, this is for you!!!

Don't dare to say my bad if you admit that you are not the reason behind my bad!!

Don't dare to say my bad if you think that what you have done is forgiveable!!

Don't dare to say my bad if you think that I never help you with your demands in material!! 

I hate you!! I HATE you!! I HATE YOU!!!!!

Work-Out : Muscle Pain

Seriously I need to exercise since my tummy is growing and I wish to have a Sand-Clock body shape.. Still not satisfy on my body shape...Big Sigh

Sunday went to Mt.Singai. First round going up with a pack of sand in my hand. Second time going up wit empty hand. Woots~~!!! GREAT ACHIEVEMENT!!

And Monday, I started my heavy work-out and guess what, I managed to do 100 times push-up, 100times squats and 100 times crunches and some sort of warm-up~~!!!!!!! UNBELIEVABLE!!!

However, I need to bear the consequences, my arm and legs pain~!! Muscle stretch I think. 

I'm on my holiday week and I got nothing to do. Feel so bored. Damn it~! 

No transport and no companion~ Big Big Sigh~

Everyone going for the Sushi Bonanza. Me? Feel like going too but I bet sure many people. And I dislike queue. Arrgghh.... Doesn't matter. I can eat it any time.

Long distance relationship,5983 miles apart.

I got this stories from Tumblr which everyone is sharing during Valentines Day. To be honest, I salute on their LDR. How they could maintain it?!! Bravo man!! Anyway, wish them all the best and stay happy.


This is such a touching story and this video can motivate others that are currently experiencing LDR. Perhaps this video can make them become stronger in facing LDR.


Lucks Peeps..............

i’m from Singapore....she’s from Sweden...

It started with a comment on a picture of mine on Facebook.

we added each other on every single social/chat sites.

we talk alomost every single night trying to get to know each other closer/better.

after a few months we confess to each other about our feelings and get together from then. 

kissing through the camera, “hugging” the lappy as if we were hugging,pinky promises,showing off everything we bought/got on that day is like our daily routine. 

there’s some friends of us who doesn’t support having this relationship,saying shit and all that,well that doesn’t discourage us,we’ve talk about it and stay strong and always think positive that we can make it and show them they’re wrong toward our relationship.

to see her cry whenever she got problem i try my very best to listen and wishing she was just in front of me so i could wipe her tears off and hug her. 

the first letter to her was with a friendship wristband,and then some gift for christmas/birthday.. i sent her a promise ring too which i could put it on her finger. and I received some goods which is artistic and a plush with autographed by bmth *how awesome* it gets so intense when we could not meet almost a year plus.

we had ups and down but we manage to overcome every single problems we had.

while the time passes by we learned to overcome the distance between us,the temptation of hugging and kissing,the trust we have for each other,to be patient at all times,all this things makes us stronger and looking forward for the first meet up. 

to be honest her existence really do help me change my life from a kid with not future to a better grown up,mature thinking man.

i do appreciate and treasure all her times spending on her lappy to talk to me. 

This is the video that we took on our first meet up,and yeah.

it’s been the greatest experience ever in my whole entire life.

the feeling when i saw her walk out the gate cant be explained.

i cried through my heart with joy/happiness.the feeling i got on that point of time will always be remembered.

How to Make a LDR Work

Come across Twitter and found this really interesting online Q&A. For those that having LDR, please take it as advice. 

Well, probably, you can find other interesting Q&A via chacha.com

How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

1. Tough, Not Impossible

There is no denying that long distance relationships are tough. In spite of that, people make them work every day. 

Personal Opinion : LDR is tough but as long as the person involved put effort in making the relationship works, it is not impossible for them to achieve a healthy LDR. 

2. Communication is Key

Phone calls and video chat apps such as Skype and the iPhone's FaceTime are key to maintaining healthy long distance relationships. Both partners should get a laptop, tablet, or smartphone to keep regular visual contact with each other.

Personal Opinion : Make use of the technology! Technology is a crucial elements in maintaining healthy LDR! Phone date, WebCam date? Pretty mush romance as well.

3. Trust Each Other

This may seem like a no-brainer, but avoiding jealousy in a long distance relationship is very important. After all, it's impossible to know who your significant other is hanging out with at any given time. As tough as it may be, you have to be supportive of your partner's social relationships; they can't become a shut in just because you can't go out together.

Personal Opinion : Trust your partner! Believe in them! Your partner will know what are the "should and should not do".

4. Do Things Together

This may seem like an impossibility with distance looming between you, but distance dates are actually possible. Use online communication to do things together such as cooking the same meal at the same time, watching the same movie at the same time, or sitting outside and looking at the stars together. Online dates are a great thing for distanced couples.

Personal Opinion : Don't you think it is sweet and special? Watching the same movie at the same time? Sleep together at the same time?

5. Visit Frequently

Doing things together virtually is great, but it's no substitute for true togetherness. Take turns visiting each other, or meet halfway as often as possible to restore intimacy in your relationships. Scheduling these regular visits, even short ones, should be a priority in managing your relationship.

Personal Opinion : Visiting once in a while will make you more appreciate the moment of meeting up and cherish the relationship more. Make a wise plan especially when the two of you are from different countries. Financial status is important.

6. Stay Positive

The loneliness of a distance relationship can sometimes feel more depressing than that of being single. Stick with it - things will get better.

Personal Opinion : Stay positive when you feel lonely. Neither you nor your partner loves the feeling of being lonely. When your partner feel depress, make sure you MUST stay positive and try to cheer him/her up and motivated him/her to stay positive. Everything will be just fine.

7. Plan for the Future

Talking about the future and making plans for how and when you will eliminate the miles from your long distance relationship can help make the separation more bearable.

Personal Opinion : Make future plan such as reallocation and when to meet will make you and your partner. 

8. Appreciate the Distance

There are some positives to a long distance relationship. You can appreciate your partner more (absence makes the heart grow fonder), and you avoid all those petty fights over little things. It's also great for couples who need a certain amount of personal space.

Personal Opinion : Appreciate the distance! Sometimes your partner need personal space as well, with her family or friends.

9. Provide Personal Comfort

Give your partner a personal object to wear, carry around, or cuddle with for those moments when the distance just seems too great.

Personal Opinion : Physical object will make your partner think about you and miss you. Couple rings work best since it is a symbol of LOVE.

10. Be Supportive

Be there when your partner needs you. Even if you can't be there physically, be available to talk on the phone, chat online, or video call. Being part of a relationship means providing emotional support, even when its inconvenient. You may not be together physically, but you've made an emotional commitment.

Personal Opinion : When your partner needs you, be there for him/her. Caring will make him/her better. Sometimes advice will works as well.

Hope this short Q&A sharing can provide some advide for you. 

Best of Lucks with the LDR. Build a healthy LDR.